More Wedding Thoughts–What Went Right?

Image by jerriek from Pixabay–not my cupcakes, but the cupcake stand looks identical to mine

I had a comment on my previous post asking about what went right for the wedding food I made this past weekend, so I figured I should write a little more about that. (Although I did have a few positive things to say in my previous post, I always figure that warnings to someone who may be doing the same thing are more useful than my raving about how delicious everything was. Which it was!)

For one, the little lemon tarts were fabulous, with the crusts staying crisp even after sitting for awhile. I’m not going to re-write the recipe here but instead will direct you to “A Set of Sweet Mini Tart Variations” earlier in this blog. The lemon recipe is the fourth one down. The brownies also came out well, and as it turned out these two items had the most leftovers, for some reason. In spite of my agonizing about the oversized cupcakes and cheesecakes there weren’t really all that many left when all was said and done. The tarts and brownies were the most freezable of the items I made, so they’re now safely ensconced in freezer bags out in our extra garage freezer.

Here’s the brownie recipe, which is so great for making little brownie bites because the recipe is easily scaled for doing that. It’s from the Taste of Home website, and I added a few flourishes (of course):

BROWNIE CUPCAKES
(from Taste of Home online magazine)

Yield: 12 mini brownies for each recipe made with amounts given; easily multiplied to give yield needed.

Sugar Content: 5.5 grams per brownie, not including extra chips or glaze

Ingredients:

¼ heaping cup (1 ½ oz.) dark chocolate chips or chopped dark chocolate
¼ cup (1/2 stick, 4 T.) butter
1 egg
¼ cup sugar
¼ tsp. vanilla
¼ cup flour
¼ cup chopped nuts, toasted optional, your choice

Instructions:

Melt chocolate and butter together in a microwave-safe bowl, preferably the bowl you’re going to use for mixing the batter. For this small amount try 45 seconds at 50% power, then check. You may need another 30 seconds or so. When the mixture is partially melted stir it until smooth and completely melted. Let cool slightly. Mix in sugar, egg and vanilla, then fold in flour and nuts if using.

Divide batter among 12 mini muffin cups, preferably with liners. For extra chocolatiness, you can put 3-4 chocolate chips in the bottom of each cup. I did this for the wedding brownies. Bake at 325O for 8-10 minutes, or until still somewhat soft in the center. Let cool completely before frosting. These cupcakes are specifically described in the recipe as not needing frosting, so the choice is up to you. Buttercream (plain, chocolate or peanut butter) or chocolate ganache would both be great if you decide to go that route, though. I used chocolate ganache, with a ratio of 2 parts chocolate chips to 1 part heavy cream, nuking it at 50% power in the microwave for 2 minutes, stirring, then doing 2 minutes more. Don’t ever heat chocolate on high in the microwave! These ganache proportions resulted in a nicely-set, beautiful glaze. I sprinkled some gold decorating sugar on the tops, but I think people may have thought that it was salt. Oh well.

I will also say that, in spite of my having to rescue my frosting at the last minute with great gobs of powdered sugar, the piping I did with it looked pretty great. I have something called a “frosting gun” or “frosting press” which I bought through Amazon. Any real decorator worth her salt would turn up her nose at this item, as its capacity is very limited. I would say that it can hold enough frosting at one time to do maybe 10 normal-size cupcakes, and it is somewhat of a pain to refill. But it’s so much easier and less messy than those dratted plastic frosting bags that are the norm, and it doesn’t require much work for your hands. I have carpal tunnel problems that can flare up, but I don’t have any issues using this tool because it has this nice lever or trigger that you use to dispense the frosting. I just wish they’d make one with a bigger capacity, but there it is. If I were doing a whole big wedding cake (which is never, ever gonna happen), I would probably ask my mother-in-law if I could use her Wilton cake-decorating set. But for what I do, and especially if I’m doing mini items, this tool is perfect. If and when I wear out the one I have, I’ll probably go with the stainless-steel one from Wilton.

Okay. Enough positivity for one post! Want you to know that I’m working very hard on my cookbook/entertaining manual/handbook of easy hacks/etc. It’s expanding as I work. If you’re a subscriber to this blog you’ll get a special deal! Score!

Some Modern-Day Versions of Ma

Martha A. Goertzen
Martha Goertzen, my dad’s sister, who lived from 1924-2019. Image retrieved from the website of LaCanne Family Funeral Services, Windom, MN.

Later today or tomorrow I’m planning to put up a brief exercise video, something you can put to use on your living-room floor, and then I’ll be posting much less frequently on this blog as I concentrate on my other site, Behind the Music. That material is much more heavily trafficked, and I have quite a bit of material on sale there, with more being added periodically. If you’re a subscriber to this blog but not to that one, please take a moment to sign up if you have any interest at all in choral music. I write posts about the music we sing in my lovely, lovely choir, The Cherry Creek Chorale, and I also have several books on major choral works. So take a look! All materials except for the books are free, just to be clear.

I did want to finish up a few ideas about Laura Ingalls Wilder and her estimable mother Caroline. As I mentioned in the last post, Laura and her daughter Rose shaped the narrative as they wrote the Little House books. They re-arranged and sometimes left out events, also giving the impression

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More About Ma: Caroline Ingalls and Her History

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Caroline Quiner Ingalls with her husband Charles Phillip Ingalls, image source Wikipedia

I said in an earlier post that I wanted to explore further the life of Laura Ingalls Wilder’s mother, Caroline, called “Ma” in the books. The more I’ve read about her the more fascinating she’s become. As I’ve re-read some of the Little House books, especially the first one, Little House in the Big Woods, I’ve been more and more impressed with how much sheer practical knowledge about survival both she and Pa had. I had thought originally that Ma had come from a pampered city life because of a passage that shows up in this first book about Ma’s best dress, her “delaine.” Pa has just come home from visiting his father to help with making maple syrup and says that there’s going to be a “sugaring off” party with a dance included.

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A Great, Simplified “Use Up the Veggies” Recipe

Image by Evita Ochel from Pixabay

I mentioned last week that I had a head of Napa cabbage in the fridge (that’s the stuff in the lower right-hand corner of the picture) and was looking forward to having lots of salads with it, but after a few days it started tasting bitter. I couldn’t force it down. Then I thought, ‘I know! I’ll make that recipe from Smitten Kitchen again!’ But going back and looking at her post reminded me of how ridiculously complicated it is, with totally unnecessary steps. I’m not going to re-write the entire recipe, though.

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How to Handle Slumps

Here’s my problem: I need to be BOTH people in this image.
Image by mohamed Hassan from Pixabay

As I’ve said lo these many times on this blog (both before and after re-naming it to reflect my major new emphasis on food), I’m a personality type called an Obliger, part of a four-part personality framework that Gretchen Rubin created. (Take the quiz here to find out your type.) It’s a framework that’s very helpful—I think, anyway—because it doesn’t try to explain everything about a person. Instead, it focuses on one narrow part of personality: how you respond to expectations, either inner or outer. Obligers, who make up the largest group (about 40%, according to a study that Gretchen commissioned), respond very readily to outer expectations—that is, what others expect of them—but don’t do well with the expectations they have for themselves. In other words, they don’t tend to be great self-starters. I had always recognized this lack in myself but thought of it as a character flaw. I was lazy. I was unmotivated. I was a procrastinator. Then I realized that this was simply the way I am, and that I needed to deal with my personality type in a productive and positive way. There was no sense in berating myself, but neither was there any sense in just excusing myself. ‘Oh well, that’s just me,’ wasn’t going to cut it.

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This, too, shall pass.

Image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay

Somehow, we have to manage to do two contradictory things at once: Passionately enjoy and pursue the present, with whatever challenges and pleasures it holds, and at the same time keep at least a corner of our minds focused on what comes next.

I’ve been pondering this lately because, and I’m sure you couldn’t possibly have guessed this, I’ve been listening to Liz Craft, a TV writer and producer and the sister of Gretchen Rubin. I reference her podcasts all the time,

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Sometimes It’s Better to Abandon a Project

Image by Robin Higgins from Pixabay

I made valances for our patio door and office window back a year ago, with the window valance still needing to be installed. These added (or will add) a nice finished look to the space. But I had way overbought the material for the valances and had several yards left over. (I don’t think it was very expensive.) So I planned to make throw pillows from the remaining fabric and bought some coordinating stuff to use for trim. I’d come up with a complicated method for making the pillow covers, with mitered, contrasting flanges. One pillow hadn’t come out very well, which was discouraging, but then I decided that

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Reception Recipes–Mini Cupcakes and Savory Cookies

silver platter mounded with cheddar cookies
Not a great shot; I’ll hope to replace it after this week’s reception.

What’m I making for this Friday, the last post-concert reception for the year? I’m so glad you asked! We have a very spring-y theme: “April Showers Bring May Flowers,” and I’m so excited about making adorable little cupcakes plus some savory cookies. The sweet items will be very small, made in my mini-cupcake tins (of which I have six). I’m not going to worry too much about the sugar content of anything, and I do plan to sample some. They are going to be so cute! And people love my Cheddar cookies. I will have a visual and textural contrast to those with some pepper-Parmesan biscotti, an item I’ve made before that went over well.

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Bake Sale Bashing

Beware the cupcake!

Hello everyone! Watch for the name and design of these blogposts to change sometime over the next few weeks. You’ll start seeing “Respect Food Roles” as the title of the blog and the header will change to something food-related. I’m excited about the new content that I’ll be publishing. So don’t be freaked out if things look different soon. I’ll tell you exactly when the change will take place so you’ll know what to look for.

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A Stunning Not-So-New Insight into my Personality

Maybe you can relate to this scenario:

You’re ready to start on a rather tedious job, such as sanding the trim around a patio door. This trim had to be added on the spot by the installer because the door ended up being the wrong size and he had to fill in the sides with whatever wood was at hand, which was some extremely rough and knotty stuff. It’s not that big of a job, and you know in your heart of hearts that you just

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