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The only person I can change . . .
. . . is myself.
Just one more day of the old year. I think my only resolution should be to remember that I can only make resolutions for myself. I want to set the very highest standards for myself but refuse to apply those standards to others, to remind myself that people are (or at least may be) doing the best that they can, to carry out the description of love in I Corinthians 13:5: “It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.” As I’ve said many, many times, I am the Queen of Grudge-Holders. If I concentrated on just that italicized phrase all year I’d be much easier to live with. (“If thou, O Lord, shouldest mark iniquity, who should stand?”)