“Whatever you focus on increases.”
There are a million versions of this idea out there; the above is sort of mine but mostly Laura Doyle’s. The link is to the post I received today, but she’s said this many times, in many contexts.
There’s some real truth (as opposed to unreal truth?) in this saying, but I want to focus first on how it can be false, since we humans always take thing too far. It’s false if taken in the sense of magical thinking, the idea that your thoughts can actually change external reality–“If I think this hard enough it will come true.”

I wrote last week about
Jesus said, “The Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath” (Mark 2:27). In other words, the concept of a day of rest wasn’t just an arbitrary rule imposed onto t
You know the type of thing I’m talking about:
In a Dark Wood: What Dante Taught Me About Grief, Healing, and the Mysteries of Love by Joseph Luzzi, HarperCollins, 2015.
Burn and wear out for Thee. Don’t let me rust, or my life be a failure, dear Lord, for Thee.” Bessie F. Hatcher, 1957.
Desiring God: Meditations of a Christian Hedonist, rev. ed., by John Piper, Multnomah Press, 2011. Available in other formats and earlier editions.
More great material from our trip last week. We visited a wonderful church in Kansas City, Mission Road Bible Church, and heard a thought-provoking sermon on the parable of the good Samaritan, or, as the speaker (a young man named Adam Bueltel who seemed wise beyond his years) called it, “