A Helpful, but not Magical, Idea

Glowing star“Whatever you focus on increases.”

There are a million versions of this idea out there; the above is sort of mine but mostly Laura Doyle’s.  The link is to the post I received today, but she’s said this many times, in many contexts.

There’s some real truth (as opposed to unreal truth?) in this saying, but I want to focus first on how it can be false, since we humans always take thing too far.  It’s false if taken in the sense of magical thinking, the idea that your thoughts can actually change external reality–“If I think this hard enough it will come true.”

 

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A Great Book—And a New Way (for me) to Enjoy It

Cold-Case Christianity book cover

Cold Case Christianity:  A Homicide Detective Investigates the Claims of the Gospels by J. Warner Wallace, published by David C. Cook, 2013.  Available on Amazon in a number of formats, including an audiobook from audible.com, also from Christianbook.com.  Visit the author’s website at Cold Case Christianity.

I’m always getting great ideas from my pastor! On Easter Sunday he mentioned a book that sounded so intriguing: written by a former police detective, applying the rules of evidence to the Resurrection of Christ.

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How did my personal Sabbath go?

two people sitting on rocks looking out over the waterI wrote last week about my desire to keep a Christian Sabbath, with the spirit and not the letter of the law.  Specifically I wanted to keep the Old Testament injunction “six days shalt thou labor” instead of my usual “six days shalt thou procrastinate,”  and avoid the deadly “I’ll get up at the crack of dawn on Sunday and get it all done” mentality, which has been the cause of my being late to church many times, stressed, tired, under the gun, and totally without the ability to enjoy a day of rest and spiritual refreshment.  (Just to be clear–this is only about myself and my personal activities.  I’m not going to get all worried about whether or not it’s okay to go out to eat, or to stop at the grocery store because I genuinely forgot to buy something, or even to go to a movie.  All of those activities do cause other people to work, but they’d be doing it anyway . . . so I think I’ll just concentrate on my side of the street, or the paper, or whatever figure of speech you want to use.)

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My Personal Sabbath-Keeping

Relaxed and smiling womanJesus said, “The Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath” (Mark 2:27). In other words, the concept of a day of rest wasn’t just an arbitrary rule imposed onto the Israelites but something for their good, something that served them, not something for them to serve. But, as I discuss in the “Time and Work” chapter of my Intentional Happiness book (see the sidebar), the concept of a day of rest is tricky, because you have to plan ahead to make it happen. I so often find myself under the gun on Sundays, the day set aside by Christians for worship, a new practice instituted because the resurrection of Jesus was on “the first day of the week.”

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An Affecting but Erudite Memoir

What Dante Taught Me About Grief, Healing, and the Mysteries of Love In a Dark Wood (Hardback) - CommonIn a Dark Wood:  What Dante Taught Me About Grief, Healing, and the Mysteries of Love by Joseph Luzzi, HarperCollins, 2015.

Joseph Luzzi had just started teaching his mid-morning class at Bard College in November 2007 when he saw a security guard standing at his door.  “Are you Professor Luzzi?  Please come with me.”  As Luzzi reached the outside of the building, he heard the words that would forever change his world:  “Joe, your wife’s had a terrible accident.”  

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“Let Me Burn Out for Thee, Dear Lord,”

Burn and wear out for Thee.  Don’t let me rust, or my life be a failure, dear Lord, for Thee.”  Bessie F. Hatcher, 1957.

This song is part of my spiritual DNA.  I grew up hearing it at my church and later on at the Christian university I attended.  I always found it to be affecting . . . and daunting.  However sincere the author may have been–and I’m sure that she was– her words induced more guilt than inspiration, for me at least.

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Is It Sinful to Be Unhappy?

Desiring God:  Meditations of a Christian Hedonist, rev. ed., by John Piper, Multnomah Press, 2011.  Available in other formats and earlier editions.

We were privileged to attend Capitol Hill Baptist Church in downtown Washington D.C. for the first decade of the new millennium.  At some point early on in our time there the phrase “Christian hedonist” was booted about, as was the name of John Piper.  I’d never heard of either.  Then we had Piper as the preacher for a Sunday morning service; all I remember personally from that sermon is that he was so soft-spoken I could hardly hear him. Bookmarks with Piper’s ideas on “How Shall We Fight for Joy?”  were passed out.  To someone from my background this whole emphasis on Christians’ being happy was kind of weird.  (I hadn’t read The Happiness Project yet, since it wasn’t yet on the scene, so I wasn’t thinking in that ballpark at all, in any context.

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Two Not-So-Trivial Books

My So-Called Life as a Proverbs 31 Wife (2011) and My So-Called Life as a Submissive Wife (2013) by Sara Horn, Harvest House Publishers.

Try to ignore the dorky picture on the cover of the Proverbs 31 book.  Really, the book isn’t like that at all.

I’m not sure how I ran across these books, but I think they popped up on an Amazon.com page when I was looking at something else.

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