Football as Metaphor

Football teed up for kickoffSo yesterday I was finishing up decorating the Christmas tree, and all there was on PBS was either a fundraiser or a scrapbooking marathon (a perfectly okay hobby, I’m sure–but hours and hours of it?) and so I turned on the Seahawks/Steelers game to keep me company.  (We don’t have cable, you see, so I’m limited to network TV and Netflix.)  And then of course I had to watch the Broncos play New England, even though I expected it to be a total blowout.  Which it wasn’t.  But we won’t get into that here.  Suffice it to say that my poor son’s ears are still ringing.

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And the book of the week is . . . 

Intentional Happiness Book CoverMine!

Yes, on this Black Friday, I am shamelessly promoting my own book.  You can see the links on the sidebar for purchasing a paperback, Kindle or e-book edition, so if you’re reading this in the daily e-mail be sure to go to my Intentional Living website so that you can follow those links.

I tried to make this a supremely practical book, with lots of illustrations from my own and others’ lives.  (You’ll find out a great deal about my husband and my mother.)  Honestly, folks, when I follow my own advice I’m much happier.

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One Year Ago . . .

Road through forest. . . we were visiting relatives in North Carolina at the request of our son Gideon, experiencing wonderful hospitality from my husband Jim’s aunt, uncle, and cousins.  See the post I wrote on Thanksgiving Day, showing Gideon still almost bald from chemo, still wearing his back braces.  It’s always good to reflect back about the past year on big holidays, I think, because we usually have clear memories of that day.  So-called ordinary days tend to blur together, but holidays stand out.  What was going on in your life last Thanksgiving?  I think we will take some time tomorrow to share memories of how our lives have changed and progressed this year.  Emphasizing the year as a whole may keep us from falling into cliches.  How far have we come?  Where do we hope to be at this time next year?

So, as I head off to the grocery store (since I’ve really procrastinated about shopping for tomorrow’s meal, and no, I’m not serving a great big turkey that won’t have time to defrost), I want to deliberately think about all the ways God has worked in our lives this year.  And to appreciate what He’s doing right now.  Tomorrow as we gather I want to be truly present, not stressed and harried about the meal or the cleanup afterwards.  What about you?  How will you deliberately cultivate thankfulness about the past year?

Complicated-but-Good Harvest Muffins

many muffinsI would highly recommend these muffins, and you could leave off the topping if you want them to have less sugar.  The amount in the muffins themselves isn’t too bad.  You do have to measure a fair number of spices and grate apples.  I kept trying to talk myself out of putting in the apples when I made this recipe for the first time, as I didn’t want to bother, but I decided I’d better go ahead and include them and I was glad I did.  The combination of the pumpkin and the apple is really good, and the apples are probably counted as part of the liquid in the recipe.  So it’s kind of a pain, but worth it.  These probably aren’t muffins that you’d whip up for a regular weekday breakfast, but they’re very nice for a special occasion.

To get the recipe, follow this link: https://www.intentional-hospitality.com/complicated-but-good-harvest-muffins/

What’s Your Sphere of Influence?

Network of spheresI have been hugely privileged to hear Mimi Wilson, a Christian writer and speaker, at various events, the most recent being a retreat I attended several weeks ago.  She has traveled all over the world ministering with her physician husband Cal and is still doing so as much as she can in spite of her Parkinson’s disease.  I can’t find a website featuring her on her own, but you can see some of her ideas about once-a-month cooking by following the link.  She’s also written a wonderful book . . .

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So What Am I Going to Eat?

Cover for My Organic LifeWell, I had a very spiritual book picked out for this week, and I definitely plan to write about it soon.  But . . . have you heard the saying “When the student is ready, the teacher appears”?  (I think that’s a koan, but I’m not sure.)  So there I was at the library a few days ago, looking at the new books display at the top of the stairs as I always do, and here was this one.  I love books about chefs.  (Although I found Blood, Bones and Butter to be supremely put-down-able.)  The organic part doesn’t interest me all that much, I’m not too sorry to say, but I was intrigued by the author because we used to live right outside Washington D.C. and I’d heard of her restaurant there.  Not that we ever went–it’s pretty pricey.  But I thought it might be fun to read at least some of it.  Well, I was hooked right away.  It says that she has a “with” author, so I guess Nora herself can’t take all the credit for the beautiful vivid writing, but it’s really a great read.

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What’s Your Type?

flooded roadwayHere’s the list of (some of) my types:

1.  Obliger.

2.  Abstainer.

3.  Type 1.5 Diabetic.  (Probable.)

I’ve discussed #1 a number of times, most recently in A Flash of Insight. . .

Because I know that I’m this personality type, I also know that it does very little good for me to just make resolutions; some kind of exterior accountability almost always needs to be put in place or I won’t do what I resolved.

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7 Push-ups from the Goal!

Wooden art mannequin posed for pushupsRemember the post on “15 Minutes a Day” back at the end of October?  I said I had two goals to work on in this very limited regular time:  be able to do 20 push-ups and reach C above middle C, both by the end of the year.  Today I did 13 push-ups, the most I have ever done in my life, I’m sure.  (No, that’s not me in the picture, or even a stylized version of me.)  So I’m on track to get to the 20.  Yes, they’re just girly push-ups.  (The spellcheck on this site seems to think that “pushups” isn’t a word.)  But they’re my girly push-ups!

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The Science of Doing It Yourself

Book cover for The Upside of Irrationality, shows a profile looking both left and right The Upside of Irrationality:  The Unexpected Benefits of Defying Logic at Work and at Home by Dan Ariely, Harper, 2010.  Go to Ariely’s website to read more about him and his work.  I have linked specifically to his pages on this book.

I am in the process of re-reading portions of Upside; my husband brought it home from the library and I swiped it.  There are long sections in which Ariely describes various experiments that he and his associates set up to test human reactions in various situations, many of which I’m skipping because I’ve read them before.  But the parts of the book that are well worth re-reading have to do with Ariely’s personal life, both the extraordinary (being badly burned at age 18 and having to go through years of hospitalizations, treatments, and surgeries) and the mundane (figuring out how to put together an IKEA toy chest).  In my usual mundane way, I’m going to concentrate on the latter. . . .

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Wisdom from Emily Dickinson

Photograph of Emily DickinsonTo make Routine a Stimulus

Remember it can cease —
Capacity to Terminate
Is a Specific Grace —
Of Retrospect the Arrow
That power to repair
Departed with the Torment
Become, alas, more fair —
Sometimes Emily Dickinson makes me tired.  Why all the dashes?  Why all the obfuscation?  Can’t she vary her meter a little bit?  (Most of her poems can be sung to the tune “Amazing Grace,” not that she  necessarily knew that.)  After getting the first half of the above poem in my inbox in the daily e-mail I get from Gretchen Rubin, I was so intrigued that I did a little research both on Dickinson herself and on the poem.  What a strange little person she was!  . . .

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