Happiness Can’t Be a Product of Falsehoods.

book cover for Voodoo Histories:  The Role of the Conspiracy Theory in Shaping Modern History, David Aaronovitch

Voodoo Histories: The Role of the Conspiracy Theory in Shaping Modern American History by David Aaronovitch, originally published in 2010 by Riverhead, now available in a number of formats.

I’ve been thinking a lot these days about conspiracy theory. Note my wording and that of the book title: conspiracy theory, not theories. In other words, the problem is not so much individual ideas as it is an overall mindset.  I could believe, for example, that the CIA ordered John F. Kennedy murdered because . . . well, for some reason known only to them. I could believe this fervently, I could belong to a JFK-Was-Murdered-by-the-CIA club, and I could look with suspicion on any news story involving the Agency. And yet I could still have a sane view of the world as a whole. My much-beloved view of this American tragedy could be just an aberration.

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Structure Can Set Us Free.

Silhoette with a clock brainIf we use it correctly, that is.

So I’m continuing to gain wisdom, both practical and spiritual, from my wonderful Bible study group. A couple of weeks ago I was a little puzzled by the fact that the teaching leader’s phone kept chiming as she worked her way through our discussion of the study questions.  Why on earth doesn’t she turn that off? I wondered. She’d just reach over, touch the screen, and continue. I thought she was getting text messages or something. Couldn’t they wait?

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We Need This Book More Than Ever!

Book cover for A Return to Modesty, Discovering the Lost Virtue, by Wendy Shalit

A Return to Modesty: Discovering the Lost Virtue by Wendy Shalit, originally published in hardcover by Free Press, 1999, now available in Kindle and paperback. (Link is for Amazon Affiliate.)

One of the awful results of this awful election is that so much vulgarity has been normalized in the media, even before the release of the “Access Hollywood” tapes. It has been interesting, and horrifying, to watch as the already-low level of public discourse has been dragged even lower.

So it’s great to know that this book, which I read back when it first came out, is back in a 15th-anniversary edition with a new preface by the author. I plan to re-read it but wanted to go ahead and write a post about it now.

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My Adventures in Mindfulness

Kingfisher looking alert

Here’s what I wrote in the afterword section  to my book (see sidebar for ordering info!) titled “What I Learned From My Summer Vacation”:

1. Pay Attention

I’ve mentioned earlier how my mind tends to scamper ahead of what’s actually happening so that I don’t fully experience what’s going on at the moment.

What’s Your Empty Water Jar?

Row after row of clay waterjugsAre you familiar with the story in the Gospel of John chapter 4 about Jesus’ meeting with the woman at the well? I’ve been taught it since I was in Sunday School. You wouldn’t think there’d be anything new for me to glean from it, would you? But there is.

We studied the passage this week in the wonderful Bible study I attend. There was a discussion question about an issue that I’d never considered before. Perhaps I’d better set the stage a bit, just in case you’re not familiar with the narrative:

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A Happiness 911

Shameless, shameless borrowing from the Gretchen Rubin podcast, this week live from Seattle.  (A city that makes me very happy!) I plan tomorrow to talk about a much more serious issue in the area of happiness, specifically in the realm of the spiritual. And the following video isn’t going to make any lasting effect in your life. But for about five minutes you’ll have a smile on your face just because of the sheer goofiness of it all. (This video is about 100 times better than the ABBA original. And yes, I know I’ve posted this before, although I think it was over on the music page. Did you watch it then? Well, why not?)
Abba Goes to the Dogs

The Real Work Comes Afterwards.

Start and Finish line on racetrack

Well, three weeks from tomorrow the election will be over. I’ve kept a line between writing about my take on the candidates and writing about happiness and intentionality, so go to the P&P page for the first.

My point in this post is a more general application about the election, or indeed any contest: often the real work begins after the excitement is over.

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A Timely Look at History.

Book cover for In the Garden of Beasts.  Shows Nazi triumphal pillars

In the Garden of Beasts: Love, Terror and an American Family in Hitler’s Berlin by Erik Larson, originally published in 2011 by Crown Publishing, now available in several formats through many outlets; link above is an Amazon affiliate link.

Have you ever wondered how on earth it was possible that a ridiculous-looking figure such as Adolph Hitler ever came to power in Germany? Here’s one takeaway from this fascinating book: Most informed citizens simply refused to believe that Hitler was anything but a joke, until it was too late. Never underestimate the credulousness of the human heart!  We hear what we want to hear.

William E. Dodd was America’s first ambassador to Hitler’s Germany, bringing his wife, son, and flamboyant daughter Martha to live in Berlin in 1933. As violence, especially against Jews, escalated, Dodd tried to warn the State Department back in Washington of this growing threat.

But no one listened. After all, we were dealing with our own crisis of the Great Depression. And it’s an interesting question as to what the US could actually have done to stop Hitler’s rise. But a recognition, at least? Strongly-worded condemnations? Publicity about what was actually happening in Germany as Hitler’s goons terrorized ordinary citizens? (And even American citizens were caught up in the terror. The book opens with a truly horrific description of how an American doctor practicing in Berlin was beaten by uniformed officers because of an anonymous tip that he was “a potential enemy of the state.”)

What sets this book apart from the mass of books on Hitler, the Nazi Party, et. al., is the perspective from the ambassador and other outsiders as they try to make sense of what is happening right in front of them. Dodd and his family are so interesting in themselves that they provide a strong narrative spine for the terrible events unfolding as a monster comes to power. What was it really like to live in Berlin during the 1930’s? How did people go on with their lives from day to day under the threat of Hitler’s power? That’s just it: they got on with their lives. Most of them kept their mouths shut. Not all. Some spoke out and paid a terrible price. But enough just . . . went along.

Doesn’t sound like a very happy book, does it? I think I’ve made it clear in other book posts that my aim in these recommendations isn’t to give you books to make you smile, necessarily, although there are some funny ones here and there. Last week’s offering is pretty amusing, but its humor wasn’t the main point. Instead, my emphasis was on what the book had to say about family relationships. So this one won’t make you feel good but it will, I think, be a fascinating window into the past and perhaps a cautionary tale for the present. A good reminder that “the only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.”

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You Can’t Repair the Damage Ahead of Time.

man with chainsaw topping off a tree
But you can at least prepare. I thought of this idea today while I was listening to a story on the radio about Hurricane Matthew. The background audio was of chainsaws as workers tried to clear fallen trees from the roads. This same concept has also occurred to me when I’ve read about the run-up to a battle. The medics are in place, bandages and medicines in hand. The tents are set up. But . . . there’s no way to bind up the wounds ahead of time. There’s no way to extract the bullets before they’re shot.  All this has to wait until the battle has taken place. How awful it will be, though, if the preparations that can be done aren’t done.

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The Truth Is Never the Problem.

Newspaper showing the word truthThe problem is the problem.

Great quotation gleaned from the conservative website TownHall. I don’t know know that it’s original with the author John Hawkins but haven’t found it anywhere else.

He was talking about the election, but you know where to go on this website to read my opinions about that. Here I want to make a broader application: that we get mad at the person who’s telling us the truth about an issue instead of facing the truth itself and what we need to do about it.

The other side of this particular coin is the attitude we need to have as truth-tellers, which is to be as loving and kind as we can. (I tend to be an eye-roller, head-clutcher and hair-puller-outer, which is not helpful.) But I’ll save the discussion of that whole personality flaw for another day. Here I’ll leave you (but mostly myself) with this additional thought: Most criticism is at least somewhat justified. There’s almost always a kernel of truth in there somewhere. So how will you react when someone points out a problem?